If Your Kidneys Fail
Taking an Active Role
It can be a huge shock to learn that your kidneys are failing—even if you knew it was coming. Kidney failure may sound like the end of the world. It’s not. You CAN have a good life and keep doing many of the things you enjoy. The keys are:
- Keep a positive attitude
- Learn all you can
- Take an active role in your treatment
You’re getting a good start right now by visiting this site.
Do you know someone who did not do well on dialysis? Please keep in mind that a poor outcome on dialysis may be due to the disease that caused the kidneys to fail—not the dialysis treatments. And, today, there are more options for dialysis than ever before, so you can choose a treatment plan that is a good fit for your life.
An Emotional Time
It’s normal to have strong emotions when your doctor tells you that your kidneys are failing. You may be afraid, worried, depressed, or angry. You might even have all of these feelings at the same time. If your feelings are getting the best of you, you are not alone. You wouldn’t be human if you weren’t scared and upset! Talk to someone about how you feel—a loved one, your care team, a clergy person, or a counselor.
When you believe that you can have a good life, it will help you to get a grip on your feelings so you can move forward and make decisions—like what treatment to choose. For tips on coping with kidney disease, visit the Social Services Room.
You CAN Have a Future
The most important thing for you to know is, you CAN have a future with kidney failure. Your kidneys aren’t working right. But, you are still you. You can choose to keep following your dreams—or find new ones. This is a photo of a person with kidney failure who has had a good life for decades after her kidneys failed. Does everyone manage this? No. But it is possible, and that means you can try.
Keep Your Heart Healthy
Health problems that cause kidney failure can also harm your heart. So, if you want to keep doing the things you love, it’s important to take care of your heart. How can you keep your heart healthy? Here are a few ideas:
- Exercise! Talk to your care team if you are out of shape. Just walking can help your heart. Start slow and build up as you get stronger.
- Quit smoking. If you smoke, stopping is one of the best things you can do for your heart. Talk to your care team if you need help.
- Keep your blood pressure in the target range your care team sets. This may mean that you need to take blood pressure pills.
- Keep your cholesterol in the target range your care team sets. This may mean that you need to take pills to lower your cholesterol.
- Eat a healthy diet, with vegetables and fruits. Lose weight if you are overweight. Talk to the dietitian to learn more.
- Drink only moderate amounts of alcohol. How much is moderate? Ask your care team.
Balancing Water and Minerals
The main job of healthy kidneys is to keep water and key minerals in your body in balance. To keep the balance, kidneys measure levels of water and electrolytes in your blood. They send wastes and extra water to the “trash can”—your bladder. Your body removes them as urine. If blood levels of a substance are low, healthy kidneys keep it in the blood and send messages to the rest of your body to get more. These messages are called hormones.
Choosing a Treatment
There are three main treatment options for kidney failure. The first two options—a kidney transplant or dialysis—may help you live. Some people choose the third option—medical care without dialysis—which allows a natural death.
There are two main types of dialysis: peritoneal dialysis and hemodialysis. Peritoneal dialysis is most often done at home. Hemodialysis can be done at home or in a clinic. Visit all the topics in this room to learn more about treatment options for kidney failure.
Treatment Options and Your Life
Life is a journey. You can go to one place or many places on a journey, and get where you are going in a number of ways. You’ll need to think about what you want your life journey with kidney failure to be. The choice you make about how to treat your kidney failure will have an impact on your lifestyle. This includes:
- What you can eat and drink
- How many medications you may need to take each day
- How much energy you may have
- Whether you feel well enough to work
- How easy it is to travel
- How well you sleep
- Your sex life and ability to carry or father children
- How long you may live
Choosing a treatment that is a good fit for you can help you to have a good life. If you have other health problems, they may play a role in the treatment choice you make.
You Can Change Your Treatment Choice Any Time
The VA offers every treatment option for kidney failure. When you choose a treatment, it doesn’t have to be a permanent choice. If you try a treatment and it doesn’t work out the way you hoped, you can change. Please give your treatment a good try first, though. For medical reasons, some treatments may be a better fit for you than others. Your doctor can advise you about any medical reasons why you can’t do a certain treatment, and can help guide your choices.
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If Kidneys Fail
Having strong feelings when you are told that your kidneys are failing is:
Not scored Most people feel angry, afraid, depressed—or all three—when they learn that their kidneys are failing. Your VA care team can help you cope with your feelings.
It is possible to have a good future with kidney failure—IF you stay positive, learn all you can, and take an active role in your care:
Not scored Taking an active role can help you feel more in control. And that can make you feel better all around, and help you have the life you want.
The main job of healthy kidneys is:
Not scored Kidneys keep your blood in balance by removing water and wastes, and making hormones.
Two treatments that can replace some kidney function are:
Not scored If the kidneys fail, dialysis or a kidney transplant are treatments that can keep you alive—and you can have a good life.
If you choose a treatment and you’re not happy with it:
Not scored If you find that your choice is not as good of a fit as you’d hoped, talk with your care team about your other options.